Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Healthy Relationships vs Abusive Relationships


Safe and Healthy
Relationships
Abusive Relationships

Partnerships have joint decision making and shared responsibilities determined together.

Economic Equality means the freedom to decide about issues of work, school and money.


Honest Emotions can flourish when both parties feel safe to admit fears or insecurities.

Sexual Respect is accepting that no means no and honoring your partner’s feelings and needs.


Physical Safety includes respect for your partner’s physical space and includes non-violent forms of self expression.

Supportive & Trusting relationships happen when both sides listen to their partner and value their feelings and opinions.

Domination occurs when the abuser makes all or most decisions in a servant/master relationship.

Economic Control occurs when you are denied the ability to work and/or access to joint money is withheld from you.

Emotional Abuse can take the form of jealousy, stress, and frustration as an excuse for violence.

Sexual Abuse occurs when a partner forces sex on you physically or uses emotional leverage or threats to force you to “give in”.

Physical Abuse includes hitting, choking, restraining, threatening, or brandishing weapons, even if not used.


Controlling relationships center on verbal abuse, mind games, and isolating the victim from support systems.


 http://www.aardvarc.org/spring/DomesticViolence/Brochures/Breaking%20the%20Cycle%20of%20DV.pdf

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